Now let's be real we (single women) give married women advice for one of the following reasons:
- You tell us your business
- You ask for the advice
- We consider you a friend and sometimes we have an opinion about how OUR friend is being treated
- We know men. Yes marriage and dating is different but men are not, they tend to remain the same no matter what.
- We maybe able to give you a single woman's point of view especially if you are considering leaving..(I always tell my friends this single world ain't no joke. If he ain't beating you stay-work it out)
- We can sometimes see when you are wrong and need to be brought back to reality
Now if you really don't want a single woman's advice then keep your mouth shut...it's that simple. We will not have an opinion about YOUR marriage if we don't know YOUR business.
On the flip why do married women think they can give single women advice. I know for a fact the men I am dating today are nothing like the men I dated 10 years ago. So if you have been married for awhile, what do you know about being single in this day and age...NOT A DAMN THANG!
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4 comments:
LOL. Tell me how you really feel?
I've definitely tried (key word is tried) to abstain from commenting on my friend's marriages. And I've learned that most that are in healthy marriages will keep stuff to themselves.
you hit the nail on the head those in healthy relationship keep there mouth shut!!
I agree if the marriage is good then they don't talk. I only give advice if asked if someone did not ask me a question I have nothing to say because I find that people don't tell you everything only what they want you to know about their relationships.
I think that married women don't mind getting advice from their single friends and vice versa. It's when complete strangers try to give you advice on your personal life that irritates some. I feel like it's great for us to still be able to keep that strong bond with our girlfriends whether I'm married and they're single or the other way around.
Just because I'm married or you're married doesn't mean we shouldn't still appreciate each other's advice. And it is ashame that nobody ever wants to really talk about their relationship when it's going good. That should be the main time that we speak up and share secrets.
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