My uncle often told me ALL men cheat but when yours cheat you have to decide if he is worth keeping. He believes if a woman's only issue is her man cheating every once in a while AND he is handling all his business at home she needs to get over it. She could possibly leave her man get another one that WILL cheat, not work, not pay bills, or do stuff around the house. I hate to admit it but I kinda agree. I'm not saying it is okay to cheat but I don't think cheating is a reason to end a relationship.
If the cheating was only sex I would like to think I would eventually be able to move past it. Now if he was in love and carrying on a relationship I sure I would dismiss him. I don't want to think about him creating a child or bringing home a STD. Those are immediate deal breakers.
I am going to piss some women off with what I am about to say but oh well. I would ask myself why did he cheat was there anything I was or was not doing to push him away. Too many times I hear women say they aren't sleeping with their men. Sometimes women will completely let themselves go and think it is okay because the had a kid or two. They treat the men like their son instead of their man. I can go on and on. Don't get me wrong SOME not all men are straight hoes but there are a few who genuinely make a mistake.
What are your thoughts on cheating? Can you forgive your mate for cheating?
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This is a tough subject. I think as long as there was not emotional/in love thing going on between my man and the woman I might be able to forgive. Forgive, not forget. He'd have to be pretty repentant.
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