I believe I am single due to my daddy (the bar is really high due to him), I'm extremely guarded, and some of the guys I've dated. Now when it comes to dating/being in a relationship I consider my self an equal opportunist to some degree. I'm not stuck on titles, careers (although you need to do something), etc. Don't get me wrong I do have requirements but I am open to dating a blue collar man. I just remember what my mother told me about my dad...he had millionaire potential when they married. She made the right decision by looking past where he was because where he IS...is on TOP! Can you tell I love my daddy?!
Basiclly I've dated dope boys (who happened to be my best BFs), entreprenuers (2nd best), a PSYCHO millionaire, and an old average corporate dude (who was ugly). Each of them had their faults but I can honestly say I have never been dogged by any of them. They all spoiled me in their own special way. One of them would bathe me in the shower, then lotion me up after and serve in bed (he cheated but hey I can't be mad).
This bring me to today....I've been single for one year and booless for a short time. Now I'm on the prowl but I have no clue on how to start dating. I have so many rules and regulations until I AM IN MY OWN WAY. I don't want to be hooked up by friends (I'm private), I REFUSE to date online (seems so desperate), I don't like light skin men (which goes for white men), etc. I am sure you get the hint. Some of my tweeps have been giving me great ideas but I have yet to put them in motion.
So with all that do you all have any ideas for me to start this dating thing?! As you see I need some major help!
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Well since you don't date online and you won't date any lightskin men. I don't know what else to tell you. I do like my men dark but nothing wrong with a little white meat. My friend is currently dating a white dr. and she said that she is finally having the time of her life. I will tell you this if you want a man some of the rules are gonna have to go and you may want to be open to other things. I will tell you like I told my single friend the other day. It don't matter if you married or single men still gonna give you hell either way you go. Good luck
stop focusing on what you don't want, start focusing on what you do want, know your preferences but don't be ruled by them, and follow what your mom did :)
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